Cyndi is my 1st baby

Cyndi Ngui is my 1st baby, she arrived this world & meet us on 16th February 2006 (Thursday) 7.50am. The time we very happy. When nurse bring my baby to my side, I carry & kiss her directly. hehe.....my 1st baby arrived liao. After I kiss her, the nurse bring her to bath & give her 1st injection.

When I 1st time look her..... wow..... her face look like me, eyes, nose, mouth & ears....all same with me, but her head look like her father. Oh, my God.....she look like a baby boy. Her weight is 3.8kg & tall is 52cm, length of her head is 35cm. Every body say : "Is she a boy"? haha..... They say she look like a boy, she is difference with others baby at hospital the day, she is big & tall.

At the 1st day, she sleep well at day time, the nurse ask me make my baby wake up with 2 hours 1 time for breastfeeding, but she don’t want wake up. She wake up at mid night & cry from 12.00am until 8.00am 2nd day because she hungry & “poo poo”. I can’t stop to breastfeeding for her, if I stop she will cry. When she “poo poo”, I stop breastfeeding & change diaper with her, she cry. After I change, I breastfeeding for her again, she just quiet. “poo poo”..... breastfeeding.....“poo poo”..... breastfeeding.....“poo poo”.....She never stop until I very tired nearly fall down from bed.

At 2nd day morning, I call my hubby & ask him bring more diaper to hospital because not enough. My baby “poo poo” more than 10 times at the 1st night. When my hubby come to hospital visit her, she sleep again, haha..... my naughty girl, bully mummy.

At the noon, a nurse giving my baby 2nd injection, when she open the towel, she say : "is your hubby very tall? because your baby look like very tall". When the nurse want to injection with my baby, the time I really scare my baby cry & wake up. How can I know, my baby sleep well & never cry. But when nurse injection with others baby time, the baby cry, my baby still sleep well like a pig, haha..... Actually 2nd day already can go back home from hospital, but doctor say he scare skin of my baby “yellow”, he want take a little bit blood of my baby for check up. We wait the result until night 8pm, nurse just say is ok & can go back home, the time I very happy, when I want go back, I listen “ping pong” outside hospital, raining liao.

After arrives ours house, I tell my baby : “baby, we arrive our house liao..... this is house of papa, mummy & baby..... hehe....." After that, we carry & hug ours baby, she look like fever, so we sent her to nearly clinic for check up, doctor say she have little bit fever, if next day she fever not recovers, we must sent her back to hospital because she just birth 2 days. I & my hubby very tired on the day but we worry with ours baby. We sleep together & wake up at mid night few times to look ours baby.

3rd day (Saturday) morning, we sent my baby to my relatives clinic for check again, after check, doctor say that my baby is illness recovers, no need worry, so we very happy.

4th day (Sunday), we stay together at home, my older sister come with my relatives from Muar to visit us at noon, haha..... they say my baby look like me more than my hubby..... My relatives ask us to complaint the confinement lady because she never do her job & go back home.

5th day (Monday) morning, my hubby go to nearly government clinic to report with nurse for they can come to check up with me & my baby. After that he go to government department to do my baby birth certificate & her Identity Card.

6th day (Tuesday), we complaint to confinement lady about she never do her job & also do the something wrong, she very angry & scold us say : “ you don’t listen another person say lar, they is auntie auntie.....nothing to do, say something wrong..... you must believe me”. After that she very angry & wait for her hubby come to take her back. After she go back, she call me & tell me she is very not happy, she don’t want continue to work with us. Haiz..... What to do? So we urgent to find a new confinement lady, then my hubby go to take my relative stay at ours house few day.

7th day (Wednesday), my hubby start to working. My auntie stay at my house with me & my baby. The day, the new confinement lady come, she just wash my cloth & baby cloth, after that she cook for me eat & bath with my baby, then she go back 11am, so early she go back. This confinement lady very bad than last time one. She make my house dirty & never clean before go back. Haiz..... what can do? So my auntie help me to clean.

8th day (Thursday), the confinement lady do the same job & go back 10.30am. At noon, my younger sister come with her family from Muar. They also say baby look like me more than my hubby. After that my auntie follow my sister go back her house.

9th day (Friday) morning, the confinement lady come, she also do the same job & go back 10am. Haha..... 10am already go back, so I clean my house myself. I also lazy to complaint her lar because my hubby not at home, just me & my baby only.

10th day (Saturday), the confinement lady also go back 10am. After she go back I call my hubby, then my hubby call her & make appointment with her for discussion about her job at 2pm or 3pm. She like very scare & say she have appointment at noon, then she say she can come my house again at morning for continue the job she never do, but my hubby really not happy & say never mind. At noon 2.30pm, she come our house, my hubby never complaint her & tell her he will go outstation working from Monday, so he must sent us to Muar & stay at my relative house, then we pay her salary. After that we go back Muar & stay at my relative house from Saturday (25th February2006) to next Sunday (5th Mar 2006). In this 9 days, my auntie help me do everything. After 9 days, I go back Malacca & never take a new confinement lady again, I cook myself & bath with my baby myself. Because we stay alone, if I take a new confinement lady, the problem also same. We pay RM1400++, she just just cook at morning, wash my cloth & baby cloth, bath with my baby, after that go back 10am or 11am. Then I boil water myself, I cook at noon myself, I keep my cloth & baby cloth myself, clean my kitchen myself, everything I do myself until I very tired. I pay money but everything I do myself. At Malacca, RM1400++ take a confinement lady just cook at morning, bath with my baby & wash cloth is very expensive. One of my friend just pay RM2000 or RM2200 for take a confinement lady stay her house day & night, she help her to do everything & take care her baby.

Before I go back Malacca, I ask my auntie teach me bath with my baby myself, my baby look like very scare when I 1st time bath with her at my auntie house, she holding on my hand like very scare I throw her inside the water.....haha.....every body look & laugh.....